tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post6669611299393136962..comments2024-02-10T16:16:31.499+08:00Comments on menopausal mumma: Heavy HeartedKakkahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16376864098492915312noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-46504725858013285002011-08-22T19:12:04.896+08:002011-08-22T19:12:04.896+08:00I read this the day you wrote it and have been thi...I read this the day you wrote it and have been thinking about it so seriously. You know you have my love and a full understanding of how you lament the loss of a baby boy that was not meant to share the love of the family. I lost a baby (first trimester), a grandchild (also first trimester) and then a great-grandchild and I often spare a thought for all of them and wish they could have been part of our family life. There are reasons things happen that we never fully understand and it is sometimes so terribly difficult to accept that these things do happen, but happen they do to so many of us. You will always have a place in your heart for your little lost grandson and hopefully as time goes by the hurt will lessen and the love will deepen. I love you so much and the rest of our family too. xxMimsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249766510078357225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-90537334414877286792011-08-20T18:26:07.093+08:002011-08-20T18:26:07.093+08:00I found you through Melissa at TTITY.
I'm so s...I found you through Melissa at TTITY.<br />I'm so sorry for your loss.Glowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08156015996147898156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-89864040700653880042011-08-20T15:42:06.925+08:002011-08-20T15:42:06.925+08:00I'm sorry I wasn't online yesterday, so I ...I'm sorry I wasn't online yesterday, so I didn't get this. I kind of love you more for grieving for him. For him being so real to you. I've lost 3 babies, one of them in the early second trimester, and most don't want to acknowledge them as real. But they are, so real, to us. <br /><br />I'm sorry for your entire family's loss. My love to you, K. As always, you are such a beautiful, wonderful woman and your daughter is lucky to have your love and support.TheThingsIdTellYouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06864291645372635512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-67709420581840204612011-08-20T12:12:23.750+08:002011-08-20T12:12:23.750+08:00Thank you all for leaving me these beautiful and s...Thank you all for leaving me these beautiful and supportive comments. They helped ease the burden of yesterday.<br /><br />It is the promise of what could have been as many of you have said that leaves the hole that is hard to heal.<br /><br />@River, I am so sorry for your loss and that you never got to meet your little girl. xxxKakkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16376864098492915312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-18676066855825206802011-08-19T20:10:12.162+08:002011-08-19T20:10:12.162+08:0031 years later I still think of the baby I miscarr...31 years later I still think of the baby I miscarried at 7 weeks gestation. It was on Mother's Day that I lost her. I know 7 weeks is too early to know the sex, but in my heart I knew she was a girl.Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-31749503761471681732011-08-19T18:52:36.273+08:002011-08-19T18:52:36.273+08:00Sobsad do you ever get over the lose of a baby, ho...Sobsad do you ever get over the lose of a baby, how ever old I don't think so. Take care.greenthumbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12067004547876814633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-76571414282467445062011-08-19T11:15:21.508+08:002011-08-19T11:15:21.508+08:00You have moved me to tears, what a touching tribut...You have moved me to tears, what a touching tribute... I'd be mourning the loss as well, love like that starts in an instant, and its inextinguishable. Thinking of you all xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06911678503912496884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-53800025912306802102011-08-19T08:31:53.562+08:002011-08-19T08:31:53.562+08:00Of course there is all the grief for what was supp...Of course there is all the grief for what was supposed to be, that is why you miss him and grieve him, for all that could have been. My thoughts are with you and your daughter and her family on this anniversary xxxalliecathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06147888501927922319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-81458718063988293842011-08-19T08:12:10.253+08:002011-08-19T08:12:10.253+08:00Oh Kakka... tears. xoxo
I remember this well, too...Oh Kakka... tears. xoxo<br /><br />I remember this well, too, because it was concurrent with my own grief. Still remember your comments about it on my post. Just so sad. Holding you all the way from Kansas. xoxoWanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099758957492165428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-64993965181314702172011-08-19T07:34:59.590+08:002011-08-19T07:34:59.590+08:00Heart hurting. And it is a grief that stays. I a...Heart hurting. And it is a grief that stays. I am loving that you remember him and cherish him, and so sad that missing him hurts you and your daughter so much.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-922585999776797616.post-59251488251702928122011-08-19T06:41:34.753+08:002011-08-19T06:41:34.753+08:00You feel like you know them already when all they ...You feel like you know them already when all they are is a promise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com