
My parents divorced and my mother re-married. I had to get used to having a step-father, who actually is a fantastic man, but boy did I give him curry that year - sorry Pop.
I wore my first bra for a few hours (a 2nd hand training bra from my cousin) even though I did not need one - but all the other girls were getting boobs and I wasn't, so tissues filled it out - LOL.
I missed all my school friends from my old school and never really made any at the new ones, thankfully that changed the following year when I started high school and met some great girls.
I always felt like the odd one out that year. No boobs, no friends, new house, new school, but I also had my first boyfriend - even though that only lasted a few weeks - he was new to the school as well. He was a year older than me and had come over from England, so I thought it was all great, until he asked me to have sex ... so it was goodbye and don't talk to me again, thank you very much!! I mean I was 12!
I'm sure that all girls of 12 feel awkward, it is the time between childhood and being a teenager, but even though so many things seemed to be hard that year, I still look fondly back as these photos and think that life really wasn't too bad after all.


This is my Mum and Step-Dad's wedding, the first time I got to wear stockings - and yes they were stocking with suspenders, not pantyhose. I still have the soft lemon bridesmaid dress with lace sleeves that Mum made in my wardrobe.
Oh, I just love these pictures! Thanks so much for sharing them! I have so many memories like the ones you've just described. At the time it seemed so difficult and hard, but now, looking back, I realize life wasn't that bad at all.
ReplyDeleteBut I certainly know what an awkward age 12 can be, I know that must've been magnified quite a bit when you add in a new step dad and school! I'm sure that was quite a challenge!
Ah, the old tissues-in-the-bra trick. That brings back my own memories of that age!
ReplyDelete12 was an awkward age for me too. Braces, no boobs and a really dodgy haircut. *sigh* At least we survived, hey?!
Not only did we survive we became awesome woman to boot. xxx
ReplyDeleteAmen!
ReplyDeleteAwesome post!!
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